Way of life...

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Regret – it really should have been a four-letter cuss word. At least that way we would have been more careful using it. There is seldom a person I have met who haven’t had any regret in life. Life offers you choices and they are hard to make. We choose one and live our life happily… thinking it was the best we could do. However, at times these choices revolve around someone who was your universe. It hits you hard mentally and emotionally.
Its hard to lose someone, because it’s just not that person you lose, you lose your sleep, your everything to it. Then the memoirs of the things you didn’t say, things you didn’t do, moments you would have created differently resurfaces.
Back then, you never thought of it this way, that person was forever for you and therefore you took them for granted then. Never ever was then there a necessity to stop and reflect on how beautiful things were and how could you add more to it.
Alas, one day you wake up to the new you and accept the situation as your fate and it was meant to happen for you to learn that lesson….sort of being practical is important than your emotions and feelings. That’s the irony.. life is made of emotional choices, make a best one practically.

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